I WEAR … ?

This is probably the number one question we get asked before a photo shoot. It can be pretty confusing and stressful trying to decide what outfits would be best for your photography session … but worry not! This guide will help you with styling tips and tricks to select clothing options for a perfect outcome on photo day.

First and foremost, BE YOU!
Your clothing choices should
allow you to be yourself and
reflect your family


Gone are the days of 1990s family portraits where everyone in the picture would wear
the same outfit. A good way to start planning a photo session is to choose a color scheme.
Try to choose a palette that has a mix of neutral shades and a bright color. Another
option is a color scheme with one main color and different variations of that color.

Instead of having everyone in the photo compete for center stage, you may want to choose one person to stand out from the others. They can wear one impactive piece that inspires the accessories and colors in everyone Else’s outfits. Typically, it’s easier to have a woman’s or girl’s outfit be the focal point of a picture.


Once you’ve chosen one person to be the focus of the photograph, use a bright color to
draw viewers’ eyes in. Everyone else in the photo can have accessories that match the
bright color, making the photo look unified and complete.


Accessories are often just what a photo needs to take it from drab to engaging. Don’t limit yourself to jewelry when you think about accessories for photo shoots. There’s plenty to choose from for both sexes and all ages—outerwear, jewelry, hats, headbands, flowers in a girl’s hair, scarves, and more.

You want to use a light hand when it comes to accessorizing. Too many accessories,
especially if they are big or bright, can overwhelm a photo and take the focus off what is
really important—your subjects! This is particularly true for little ones. Their unique
personalities and beauty need to be allowed to shine through, not be overshadowed by a
gigantic headband or overdone accessories. Remember, accessories are just there to
enhance what your subjects are bringing to the photo—their personality and beauty.


After you’ve chosen your color palette—discussed above—choose one or two bright
accent colors that you can use for accessories throughout the photos. If you’ve chosen a
toddler girl to be take center stage in the photo, look at the colors that are in her outfit.
Her outfit might feature a pattern with gray, teal, and salmon colors. Mom can wear a
bold teal necklace and matching earrings, Dad can sport a salmon tie, and the big
brother can wear a funky bow tie or some fun teal socks. The possibilities are limitless!

Consider using multiple accessories for each subject throughout your photo shoot.
Depending on how many accessories you have, you can do one or two changes
throughout the shoot. This is much easier than doing full clothing changes, but it’s enough to give photos a whole new feel.

Rather than making accessories a static part of the photo, get subjects interacting with
them! Baby can grab Mom’s necklace during a photo, a child can hold their hat in front
of them for a picture with a little bit of attitude, or you can have someone drape their
jacket over their shoulder as they turn towards the camera.

Look into parents’ wardrobes for accessories that kids can use. This plays on the jubilance of youth and creates a link in the photo between a parent and the child. A little boy looks adorable with his dad’s hat balanced on his head, and little girls often love playing with mom’s jewelry.


Nothing draws the eye to a photo like differences. Two easy ways to add fun differences to a photo are layers and different textures.

Layers offer different aspects to a photo in several different ways. Subjects can
take on and take off layers for different looks in each photo, and layers add a
nice bit of color variation.


This is a great technique for
black and white photos to add
different points of interest in
the photo.

Different fabrics and accessories can give much-needed texture to a photo. Look for pieces of clothing with embroidered details, lace collars or accents, ribbons, ruffles, and other fun textures. These types of different textures show up well in black and white photos as well as color photos, giving a pop of personality to each photo. Plan your outfits and layers to match your vision for the photo and what brings out your subjects’ personalities and styles.


For a photo that focuses on the subjects and brings out their best traits, simple props are
the best way to add some fun to a photograph. Look at the location of a photo shoot and
the vibe of the shoot. Is it fun? Romantic? Nostalgic? Keep your props in line with the
theme of a photograph so they enhance the photo, rather than detract from it.

A photo in a meadow can be enhanced with a handful of wildflowers. A romantic
engagement photo is made even sweeter when a couple holds an object that’s
meaningful to their courtship. For photos featuring children, pick objects that are
meaningful to them for the photo. A stuffed animal adds to the feel of a photo and will
make you smile when you look at the photo years later. Just make sure that a prop fits
in with the picture!

Keep your props in line with
the theme of a photograph.



Everything that is worn or used in a photo shoot affects the look and feel
of each photo. This includes shoes. Don’t let shoes and footwear be an
overlooked part of your outfit planning. A pair of shoes that doesn’t
fit in with the rest of a photo can detract from the picture.

Unless you have tennis shoes that are unique and fun enough to fit in with the vibe of a photo shoot, you may want to consider other footwear options for your pictures. For women, ballet flats come in almost every color.

Choosing a pair of flats that fit in with the color scheme is a great way to make a photo look great and add a burst of color. Shoes, when matched with accessories that other subjects in the photo are wearing, can tie a photo together. Bright yellow ballet flats can match a man’s yellow tie or a little girl’s headband. This creates a unified feel in a photo without making it too cutesy. Consider going barefoot if the shoot allows for it. Bare feet can create a rustic, casual feel that better shows off the natural personality and interaction of the subjects in a photo.


While your preferences may be different, many photographers and subjects alike prefer to dress in timeless and classic looks that will last through the years. Wearing clothes that are too trendy might mean that the photos will look outdated in a matter of months of years. If you choose clothes that have looked good for years, the photos will likely continue to look good and up-to-date for years to come. For a classic look, choose a soft color palette with a couple of bright colors that are repeated in accessories throughout the photos. Sticking to timeless looks will let your subjects’ personalities shine through. However, if a family wishes to use trendy, modern clothing, that is their prerogative. Either way, you can make a beautiful photo!

For a classic look, choose a
soft color palette with a
couple of bright colors


As you plan out a photo shoot, remember to think about where and how pictures will
be displayed. If you are planning on displaying photos on your living room wall, tie the
colors and setup of your photos to the color scheme of the room. Photos that will go up
in a child’s room should emulate the fun, playful spirit of children and capture the age of
your children. Pictures that will be used for invitations, Christmas cards, or
announcements, keep the smaller display size of the photo in mind. Small details may get
lost in a smaller photo, so use bold accessories that will show up in a 4 x 6 photo.


Adults can be comfortable in just about anything for the length of a photo shoot.
However, choosing perfect children’s clothing is of the utmost importance for a
good photo shoot. Kids can be made itchy or uncomfortable by the smallest
inconvenience—a tag in the back of a shirt or a fabric that rubs against the skin
wrong. Choose free-flowing clothing for kids will allow them to move easier and
stay comfortable throughout the photo shoot. For outdoor photos, consider
bright, free-flowing clothing that will move with the child and add movement
and life to a photo. A dress that twirls not only enchants a little girl, it make a
photo exciting and engaging. A superhero cape has the same effect for
a boy—they feel excited about the photo and that enthusiasm shows in the photo

To ensure that the children are happy and at ease during photos, let them pick their
own clothing. They’ll pick something that shows off what their preferences and
interests are. If you are worried about what they’ll choose, try selecting three or four
main outfits that you would be happy with your child wearing for a photo. Let them
choose from the outfits you’ve selected; they’ll still feel like they got to make the

free-flowing clothing for
kids will allow them to move
easier and stay comfortable




Patterns are like bright colors and accessories in photos—they are great when they are used with a light hand. One person wearing a patterned top or dress can break up the picture into visually interesting chunks. To avoid overwhelming a photo, have just one
subject in a photo wear a bold pattern. In the rest of the photo, have small bursts of
patterns to draw the eye through the photo. For instance, a little girl dressed in a bold
patterned dress can look great next to her mother who is wearing a subtly patterned

Patterns are like bright colors in
photos—they are great when they
are used with a light hand



As you plan your photo shoot outfits, keep the location in mind. You want the clothing
choices and the photo setting to complement each other, not look like they don’t match.
Imagine a little girl with a vintage cotton dress, sporting pigtails and holding a handful
of flowers she picked herself. This would look great in a meadow or a farm setting.
However, the same little girl would look a bit strange in an urban photo setting.

You also want to make sure that the colors and patterns you choose fit well in the
environment you’ve selected. If a subject’s clothing is the same color as the background,
she or he may blend in. It may be easier to first choose the location for a photo shoot and
then plan outfits around that location. If you’re shooting in an area with lots of patterns
and visually distracting elements, bright, solid colors may be just what your subjects
need to stand out.



Avoid outfits that mean that everyone is wearing the same color or pattern. This
makes a photo look dull and outdated, not to mention taking away from your subjects’
unique personalities and preferences. Choose a color palette and let everyone have
their own take on it. This will create a photo that is coordinated and classy without
being cheesy or overdone.

Don’t choose clothing that has large pictures, labels, logos, or words on it. This often
looks too casual for a photo shoot and detracts from the overall feel of a photo. People
who look at the photos will notice the logo on your child’s shirt before they notice
your child’s beaming smile. Logos and graphics on clothing can work in some cases.
Themed photo shoots may call for these items. In general, however, try to stick with
more classic clothes that will show something other than what clothing brands you

If you choose a stylish, modern look for a photo shoot, make your clothing choices
wisely. Choosing something that is overly trendy and doesn’t have any classic
features will make your photos look out-of-date long before they need to.

Stay away from white socks and sneakers. Neither bring anything to a photo, and
both can actually detract from the overall look of a photo. If sneakers or white socks
are part of a modern look, they may have their place.

If photo subjects have jewelry or accessories they wear all the time, make sure that
they fit in with the look of a photo before wearing them in a photo. Watches, earrings,
necklaces, and other accessories may need to be removed for a photo shoot.


What to wear
– Coordinate don’t match – try to find colors that go well together. Choose one or two
colors if you like that match but gone are the days of all white, beige or fully matching outfits.Use your imagination be funky or modern if you like.
Choose colors you love since these pictures will be hanging in your home make them yours.Feel free to accessorize omit patterns and stay away from logos.
Classic is always best timeless and can be treasured for years to come.

– Try not to do a new hairstyle the day before – for hair to look fresh
cut should be done at least a week before. Wash hair and style as normal.
A bounce sheet is great to keep away fly away or static hair.
Bring a comb or brush along as well.

– Kids get bored easy – please do not promise a treat or prize after
that just makes them anxious to have the shoot done.
– Instead make it an adventure talk about it ahead of time makes them look forward to it.
– Please no cheese – remember the old days of say cheese and your stuck with those
Cheesy smiles forever. Try to get natural even silly smiles; those sweet grins shy or beaming really make the shoot. Lets make this showcase your family who you are .
– Bring a healthy snack, drinks, and bug spray or sunscreen if needed – lots of smiles as well.

– Dads get bored easily please explain to Dad this shoot is important to you and to bring his smiles and best attitude

Kids are easily distracted I have patience please do as well.
Most Important lets have fun !!!!!!!!

Wild Ash is formerly known as Ashley McCoy Photography. Wild Ash is a Hodgenville KY based lifestyle photographer serving Larue County, Hardin County and the surrounding areas who also travels. Her style is storytelling, bold, and genuine. Ashley aims to capture all the little moment for you and your family to remember forever.

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